tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3944025825376796221.post1660822899913290011..comments2022-09-30T20:05:51.546+13:00Comments on Sober Man 365: Emerging AgainSober Man 365http://www.blogger.com/profile/16207409734258473787noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3944025825376796221.post-13340412679906271192016-12-02T21:09:22.046+13:002016-12-02T21:09:22.046+13:00Hi Soberman. So glad to see you emerging again, I&...Hi Soberman. So glad to see you emerging again, I've missed you, and especially seeing as you are one of the very few commentors on my own blog....hehehe.<br />I'm so sorry you've been through so much lately, I am a lousy friend not to have checked up on you these last couple of weeks. The experience I had with my family letting me down in September really threw me for a six, I was dreafully unhappy about it and it shook my confidence completely. It has taken a lot of time to try to heal and let it go.<br />I hope your counsellor has helped you to make some breakthroughs. If we stay open to learning new ways to perceive things, there's no limit to how much we can change, and how much happier those changes can make us. I had a big learning curve just last week, which I will tell you about when I see you. Look after you and yours xoxPrudencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14296042437400909930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3944025825376796221.post-75910154329930214932016-12-02T16:43:17.499+13:002016-12-02T16:43:17.499+13:00Every time you go through a hard experience like t...Every time you go through a hard experience like this you grow.<br />It still rattles me when unexpected negative experiences come up and I panic. I shift into self criticism and blame myself.<br />But I see it faster and I gather myself up and use whatever o need to get through.<br /><br />I wish I could say that sober nothing shakes me...but it does. I just know the only way to deal is alcohol free. Even if chocolate, bubble baths and tears are required.<br /><br />Ainsobrietyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15642935819165465190noreply@blogger.com